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Emma's TRF
Experiences
Arrived home Wednesday
night after a very smooth flight. Meggie and I had a wonderful time and
met with Judi in her dressing room one night after seeing The Royal
Family. She looked very tired and it is obvious that she is working hard
to cover up her grief of losing Michael. The play has been discussed on
the list and I really have nothing more to add to it except I enjoyed it
very much and took it for what it is, A comedy. JD of course was
excellent and her facial expressions were up to her usual standards.
The day after we arrived in London, 12/28, we went at noon to the
Memorial Requiem Mass for Michael conducted by the Catholic Stage Guild.
It was just lovely and Judi and Finty were both there. The hymns were
sung by The Royal Academy of Dramatic Art Singers. The service lasted
about an hour and a half and when it was ended everyone was asked to
remain sitting so that Dame Judi could leave the church quickly as she
had to get to a matinee performance of TRF.
It was our good fortune to go to the BAFTA Tribute for Judi last Sunday.
We were able to get tickets through BAFTA to the tribute only, not to
the dinner. Joan Street has given you all an excellent accounting of both
the tribute and the dinner so I won't go into detail on it.
Meggie is flying home on the 17th as she went to visit her son and his
family in Oxford.
As to 60 minutes, Judi was interviewed by them for 2 hours while she was
in NYC and then again this week in London. Keep an eye out for the 60
minute edition that shows JD.
Meggie's TRF Experiences
I'm home at last, after nearly a month in England, so thought I'd check
in with my ATGB friends. As Emma has told you, I went to Oxford after
she came home, and spent time with my son and his family, so am still in
the process of getting back to normal time, and trying to catch up on
chores, laundry, mail, and endless email.
Many of you have asked for my account of our trip, so I shall do my best
to comply.
I will try not to repeat information that others have reported, or at
least if I do, I will try to give a slightly different perspective, or
add a few thoughts that have not already been covered in other letters.
The day after we arrived in London, Emma and I were honored to be able
to attend the Memorial Requiem Mass for Michael Williams given by the
Catholic Stage Guild at Corpus Christi Church in Covet Garden. It was a
most moving tribute, in this beautiful, ancient little church. Judi and
Finty sat six rows ahead of us on the opposite side of the aisle, and
her understudy, Penny Ryder, sat two rows behind her. Penny gave one of
the readings, as
you can see on the Program, which Emma has scanned to the lists. Martin
O'Brien,
Chairman of the CSG Young Members' Group, sat beside me and we had a
nice chat at the end of the service. His contribution is mentioned in
the program as well.
As Emma has told you, we all sat quietly at the conclusion of the
service so that Judi could go directly out to her waiting car, to get
back to the theatre for the matinee. She looked absolutely beautiful as
she and Finty walked down the aisle. We saw some familiar faces in the
congregation, but couldn't recall the names. One was the young woman who
appeared in a few episodes of "A Fine Romance," the very short
girl with curly black hair who plays opposite Harry, the extremely tall
guy.
The next day we listened on BBC1 to the Memorial Service in Westminster
Abbey for the British victims of Sept. 11, then watched clips of it on
the evening news. As you know, Judi read two poems at this service. When
we spoke with her later she said it was a very moving service, and the
most difficult part was meeting " - all those families who had lost
loved ones
that day. There were many babes in arms who obviously were not even
'born' yet on September 11. So very sad."
One evening when we went in to our favorite restaurant for a pre-theatre
meal, there at a table all by herself was Julia MacKenzie! We were just
flabbergasted, so much so that we didn't even try to speak to her. After
she left, we said to our waiter "Wasn't that Julia MacKenzie at the
table over there?" He replied casually, "I'm not sure of her
name, I just know that she's appearing at the theatre next door."
We also saw Moyra Fraser one evening,
coming out of the theatre at the same time that we did.
Of course The Royal Family was wonderful. As those who have seen it
know, many of the cast talk almost non-stop, and very loudly, as there
is a lot of discussion and argument among the family members. I couldn't
imagine how they could do this eight times a week without losing their
voices, so I asked Judi about it when we spoke to her in her dressing
room. " We use HONEY," she said. "We consume it
constantly."
We commented on the very nice plaque on her door, which had a beautiful
engraved "H" for the Haymarket Theatre, and below that,
"Judi Dench." "Well, that one's all right," she
quipped, "but you
should see the one they put up first." "Oh, was it not all
right?" "Just look," she replied, and pulled a plaque out
of her dressing table drawer. It was exactly the same as the one
on the door, but it said " *Dame* Judi Dench." "I
told them to make another one, I wasn't having THAT on my
door!" And she tossed it back into the drawer. What a
sweetheart!
During the one week when Judi had Michael's memorial service Wednesday
and the Westminster Abbey service Thursday, she then flew on Sunday to
America for two days of interviews and the Iris Premiere, flew back on
Wednesday, and appeared on the stage on Wednesday night. *Where* does
she get the energy? On the stage that night, she was marvelous, you
never would have known that she was performing with jet lag. But in the
dressing room later, someone asked her a question, a very simple one,
and she simply could not answer. She said "I'm sorry, but I'm not
thinking clearly yet."
We asked her what programs she had appeared on in America, and she
reeled them off.
I said "How about Charlie Rose?" "Oh, don't I wish,"
she replied with a big smile.
"What a beautiful man !" He actually *listens* to what you
say!
Emma and I saw the play several times, and it seemed that each time, we
would notice something that we had missed before. At one point, Emma
whispered, "Kitty just had her third drink." I hadn't even
been counting, but then I realized that indeed, she was tossing them
down rather freely, thus the giggly demeanor and the slight unsteadiness
on her feet.
I was fascinated by the grandfather clock. There were several occasions
in the play where
someone would look at their watch and mention the time, and I started
checking the clock.
Sure enough, each time, the clock was exactly correct with the dialogue
in the play.
There is even one scene which ends with the clock chiming the hour,
precisely as the curtain slowly closes. I wondered how they could time
the dialogue so precisely with the clock, but then I discovered that
they were timing the *clock* to the *dialogue!* I began comparing the
progress of the clock with that of my watch, and discovered that the
clock was going a bit
*faster* than my watch was! So someone must have been behind it,
adjusting it minute by minute to agree with the dialogue.
Emma and I both agreed that our very favourite scene was near the end of
the second act, just after the shouting and arguments among the
Cavendish family members had reached a critical point. The granddaughter
has just decided that she is going to give up acting and "live a
normal life." This does not set well with Grandma Fanny (Judi.) She
proceeds to regale the wayward Gwenn with the delights of an acting
career, with the very convincing speech which has been quoted in at
least one review, but which I cannot remember word for word. The point
is that - acting is night and day, eat and drink, acting is everything,
- you go to the theatre, greet the doorman, smear greasepaint on your
face, go to makeup, then check the audience, find the rabbit's foot, the
curtain opens, it is a thrill every single time, etc., etc, and all you
think about is "Going on, - Going on, - Going ON," and she
gets herself into such a state that she "faints," dramatically
into her chair. Of course the family is terribly worried, they all
gather 'round, - a drink is brought, and the shattered granddaughter
tearfully announces "I'll do it, Grandma, I'll do the play."
Having accomplished her goal, Fanny weakly lifts her head and just
manages to open her eyes ever so slightly, to make sure of the reactions
of all the rest of the family who are anxiously hovering over her.
Great laughter in the audience at this wonderful, subtle gesture.
But Fannie's not done yet. They gather around her and determine that she
should be taken up to bed ~ she plays along, but half-way up the stairs,
she says "Wait a minute," and has her last word on the
subject. They then propel her the rest of the way up the long, winding
staircase, and, near the top, she leans backward and looks down and back
over her shoulder with a baleful glance at Gwenn, to make sure that she
is properly chagrined. Absolutely wonderful ! With those
magnificent eyes, and without speaking a single word, she brings down
the house, every time! !
On December 9 we were thrilled to be able to attend the BAFTA Tribute to
Judi on her birthday, where she was accorded their highest honour, the
Bafta Fellowship. We walked on the red carpet, up the steps, and into
the beautiful Haymarket Theatre, and were led to a lounge full of
theatre personalities, where simply unbelievable canapes were being
served along with the drinks. Saw many familiar actors, but for the most
part we just watched in amazement, though we did chat a bit with
Geoffrey Palmer. Emma asked him about Season nine, and he said
"You'll have to ask that chap over there," pointing to Sidney
Lotterby,
but we did not approach him. Finty was there, of course, and all the
cast of The Royal Family, - also Pierce Brosnan, Richard Briers, and
many others whose names I could not recall.
Soon we were escorted to our seats, and found we were sitting near Bob
Larbey, Peter Hall, and Barbara Leigh-Hunt. Stephen Fry was the master
of ceremonies, and he introduced Judi, who came out looking absolutely
radiant in a simple, elegant black velvet gown. She spoke briefly and
then went to her seat in the front row next to Geoffrey and his
wife, and near Sir John Mills.
The Tribute was wonderful, and maybe if we all make a concerted effort,
we can persuade our PBS stations to buy the rights to show it. It seemed
that nearly all of the British acting community were there, and each one
gave a lovely tribute to Judi. There were many jokes, of course, as
there always are at these affairs, and, naturally, endless praise for
her amazing talents and her very special qualities as a person. Billy
Connolly gave quite a long discourse, - he does tend to get sidetracked
in many hilarious directions. Maggie Smith's tribute was exquisite, and
she spoke about the long friendship that she and Judi have shared.
Between the personal tributes, there were filmed tributes from people
who were unable to be there, such as Kevin Spacey and many others. Also
on the screen were shown clips from many, many of Judi's appearances. I
think that all of our "favourite clips" were there! One thing
that I found very interesting was the clip of her appearance in Cabaret.
Perhaps you remember that in the Bravo interview, they showed a scene of
Sally Bowles dancing, in
a scanty outfit, and singing "Cabaret." I remember Tracy
Thomas telling me at one time that she had studied Judi's lips during
that song, and she felt that she was in fact not singing
"Cabaret" at all, but rather "Don't Tell
Mamma." Well, Tracy, you are absolutely correct! They showed
a much longer clip of this scene, and it is indeed "Don't Tell
Mamma" that she is singing!
Geoffrey spoke with much affection and admiration for Judi, as did
Richard Briers. Joseph Fiennes, Pierce Brosnan, and Jim Broadbent were
among the others who praised her. Then Stephen Fry called Judi back onto
the stage and they sat in armchairs for a little chat. They talked at
great length, and Judi's upcoming movie, which Stephen will be
directing, was mentioned.
Finally, Sir Richard Attenborough spoke glowingly about Judi, and then
presented her with the BAFTA Fellowship Trophy. Judi spoke once more and
thanked everyone for the wonderful tribute, then Billy Connolly
presented her with an enormous bouquet of red roses, it must have been
at least three dozen! Stephen Fry walked over to the orchestra and said
"Do you know a song called Happy Birthday?" so of course we
all sang to Judi. A lovely evening indeed, and one Emma and I shall not
forget.
Just one other lovely story about little Sam, Judi's beloved grandson.
Penny Ryder had told us that during the time that Judi would be in
America, Sammie would be appearing in a Nativity Play at his school;
Judi, sadly, would have to miss it, but Penny was planning to attend,
with Finty. So, after Judi returned from America, we asked her if
she had heard how
Sammie had fared in his play. She replied that he had done "Fine,
just fine, but Finty said that during his time on the stage, he just
kept looking steadily at the floor, would not look up at all, like this
- " And she did an adorable mime of a shy four-year-old !
I asked if this had been his "First Stage Appearance," and she
smiled and replied, "Yes, his very first ! Someone videotaped it so
I will be able to watch it. He played the part of 'a visitor,' and I
told him 'You are not "A" visitor, you are "THE"
visitor, the ONLY one!' "
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