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A Day with Judi Dench
Staunton, VA, USA
Public Appearance -- May 15, 2004
Last Updated:  March 13, 2010


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A Special Thank You to Jane H, USA, (bottom right with Dame Judi)
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My Day With Dame Judi Dench

By Website Visitor / Contributor, Ginny A, USA


 

Hi Friends,

I have been putting this off, because it is a "big deal"; but I am now ready to try and put down my memories of May 15, 2004 in Staunton, VA!

Having arrived at the Shenandoah Regional Airport in mid-afternoon of May 14th, I was able to get a ride on the shuttle bus soon thereafter, taking me to the Days Inn in Staunton. As soon as I entered my room, I called Kathy C, who had arrived the day before - from Salt Lake City!! She came
to my room right away, and we greeted each other like long lost friends.  (She is a darling young woman in her early forties, to whom I had spoken on the phone a couple of times - and e-mailed numerous times, about our trip to VA.

It was a huge deal for me to spend money on a plane trip from Providence, two nights at a motel and $300 for tickets to see Judi at the Blackfriars Playhouse, during intermissions, and at a cocktail party after the play (oh yes, the play - "The Importance of Being Ernest", performed by the Shenandoah Shakespeare actors -  was excellent). Judi was introduced before the play by the group's executive director Ralph Cohen, who has known Judi and Michael Williams since 1979. He spoke glowingly of the two, who had given their full support to the building of Blackfriars Playhouse, and even aided in fund-raising efforts. The tribute to both Judi and Michael was sincere and touching; and the beautifully framed photo of Michael was unveiled, to be placed prominently on a wall of the theatre.

Judi then accepted the tribute with heartfelt thanks and some anecdotes, both serious and amusing. She was given a long standing ovation when she entered the stage area, as well as when she finished her remarks. It was just thrilling!  Before the beginning of the play, the actors (very talented young men and women) spoke directly to Judi with quotes from plays of Shakespeare - and also sang a clever song written in the style of W.S.

There were special "refreshments" before the start of the play, in a downstairs room: Scones, tea and cucumber sandwiches! I doubt if many people bothered to eat, however, as everyone wanted to speak with Judi!! She was very gracious indeed; but only a few people were able to engage her in conversation at that time. I hung around until someone insisted that Judi really had to get back. While the actors sang to her, she sat in a chair at the side of the stage. At the start of the play, however, she sat with the rest of the audience, next to Mrs. Ralph Cohen and (I believe) Sue J, her personal assistant. An unexpected surprise was the announcement that the esteemed Madeline Albright was in the audience! (She went up a couple of notches in my book, since she is obviously a big Judi Dench fan!)

Kathy and I were sitting across from Judi and could look at her during the first two acts whenever we felt like it. During the third act, however, she was seated elsewhere (we thought for a while that she might have "left the building")! During the "intervals" everyone crowed around poor Judi. I think
I may have said a word or two to her; it wasn't easy to get "one's turn".  After the play, people made their way to the entrance. Oh, I forgot to mention that it was a very humid 86 degrees that day. I couldn't even wear my glasses because the humidity got them all steamed up! Kathy and I (and
probably everyone else, including Judi) were terribly uncomfortable - until later at the cocktail party (that started at 6:30 in the evening).  

There was a big group of us fans from Chris's web site who got together outside the theatre before - and after - the play. Most of us were wearing our "Judi buttons". Around 12:30 Judi emerged from a silver Volkswagon across the street, with Mr. and Mrs. Cohen and Sue J. She had to pass
by our group and she remarked about the nice buttons. Ann C gave her flowers, and many pictures were taken at that time. Judi was very sweet and friendly, but had little time for chit-chat.  After the play, many of us hung around, waiting for Judi to reappear - but she never did. (We were a
bunch of middle-aged "groupies"!) A member of the theatre finally came and told us that Judi had already left. Sadly, we made our way down the street to a little "coffee house" for a cool beverage. As we were sitting in the shop, sipping our sodas, who should appear - walking swiftly by the window -
but Judi herself, striding past us all, helplessly stuck inside just feet away from her. (It was apparent to all of us that the lady from the theatre had tricked us into leaving; there was no time for poor Judi to get bogged down by a bunch of fans wanting to talk or take her picture!)

After our "pick-me-up" and the unexpected sighting of Judi outside the shop, Ann, Kathy and I said our good-byes to Jane H and her family, who were not going to the cocktail party. The other gals from the MW/DJD Chronology site had already gone their separate ways; and we would see some of them again later  at the gorgeous private home "The Oaks", owned by Margaret and Fletcher Collins. The weather forecast for this day had been a bit "iffy": A 20% chance of showers - possibly even thunder showers. It had remained hot and sunny all day and stayed dry during most of the cocktail party (which took place primarily outside on the beautiful patio and flower-decked grounds). We were so fortunate!

Ann, who had driven her car from Virginia Beach (four hours away from Staunton), drove Kathy and me to the party shortly before 6:30. After what seemed like an eternity, Judi appeared on the patio, looking stunning in a black pant suit with a spectacular red scarf over her left shoulder. I asked
if she'd had a chance to get some rest (she had only just arrived the night before, from England) and she said, simply, no. I then complimented her on the lovely scarf, to which she responded, "Thank you. It was just given to me." (I believe I was able to speak to Judi about four separate times; and each time the "conversation" was equally brief! But - hey - she did speak to me!!)

A very large percent of those in attendance had cameras, and the flash bulbs were going off continuously. Though I had no camera, I was fortunate enough to have my picture taken with Judi by several people. (Proof positive that  it really did happen!) So far I have only seen a couple of pictures; I was smiling like a darn fool. Well, fools are usually happy, aren't they??

Everywhere we went, those from the Internet, our Judi buttons were admired and coveted. My daughter Julie had made them for all those who expressed an interest in having one; I could have sold a couple  dozen that day!  Poor Judi must have had a serious cramp in her right hand, from all the
autographs she signed that day. And her eyes must have been blurry from all the flash bulbs going off in her face! But she smiled patiently throughout the whole ordeal, knowing how important it was to her fans. I feel extremely lucky to have learned of the event through Chris's web site. (When I first
read the article about Judi coming to Staunton - it didn't say Virginia - I thought it referred to the Blackfriars Theatre in England.) When I learned it was the Blackfriars Playhouse in Virginia - the East Coast of the U.S., not far from where I live - I could hardly believe it!

Kathy and I had not signed on for the dinner part of the event, although Ann, Judy Roe and some others had. You have probably read Ann's description of that last part of the day. At some point in the evening, the heavens opened up, and how it rained! I hope it was not until after the dinner was
at least under way.

It has now been two weeks since that magical day; and I am still smiling whenever I remember it. I actually got to meet that dear lady, Dame Judi Dench. Oh, I forgot to mention that I procured two autographs at two different times. At the playhouse she signed a photo, and at the cocktail party she signed my program. The first time she signed the photo, I had not been there to ask her; Jane had given it to her for me. Before she signed my program, she asked "What's your name? Is it for you?" I said "Oh yes indeed; I wouldn't give it to anyone else!" That may be why she signed it "To Ginny
. . . Best Wishes . . . Judi Dench".

Well, friends, that's my story - and I'm stickin' to it!! Of course, the real bonus from this experience is the new friendships I have forged. Thanks for listening . . . . . Hope you don't mind that it's so long. It will also be a chapter in my "memoirs", if I ever write my life story for my family!

Love,  Ginny

A Special Thank You to Ginny A, USA, for sharing this special experience with all of us
 


Cocktails and Dinner with Judi

By Website Visitor / Contributor, Ann C, USA
(the lady in the blue jacket in the photos above)

Jane did a good job telling about Judi at Blackfriars Playhouse. All that I can add, is that I gave her  flowers outside the theater. She said thank you and that that was very sweet of me. She maintained her grace all day, despite being mobbed and continually being subjected to constant flashes from cameras. Her answer to the question of having her picture taken was, "Of course!"

After the play, "The Importance of Being Earnest", she had a press conference. The next event was a cocktail party at the private home of Mr. and Mrs. Fletcher Collins called The Oaks. It was a lovely old home, built in the 1800's. A bar was set up on the patio of the back yard garden. As it was quite warm, most people, Judi included, gathered in the garden. This time, Judi was wearing black slacks, white top with a long black, long sleeved jacket. She wore a beautiful red print scarf over her left shoulder. I was told that a member of the actors troop had given it to her. I was told prior to the festivities, that 100 tickets would be sold for the cocktail party, and I think that Judi talked and /or posed with pictures with all of them. Again with grace and dignity. At one point, Judi had a small wardrobe mishap. Her jacket slipped off of her shoulder and she couldn't get her shoulder pad back in place. Sandy H. stepped in to Judi's rescue and fixed the offending shoulder pad. I asked if I might take a picture during this episode and Judi said yes. The look on Judi's face is priceless, and I can imagine all kinds of captions for it.

Dinner was held in a small restaurant called The Dining Room, which had been closed to the public for the night. There were 6 large round tables set up with places for 9-10 people. Place cards on each table were named with movies or TV programs that Judi and Michael did together. Judi did not mingle too much, but conversed with her table.  She was beginning to look tired by this time. As she said later, in response to a toast made to her, she was "flagged', and was it really 3:15 am in London? In her remarks, Judi said how much the day had meant to her and you could tell how heartfelt she was. During her remarks, someone called out, "Come back again", and Judi said she hoped someone would yell that out. I did have a few minutes of one on one with Judi, while we formed a queue (her words) for the ladies room. The evening ended all too soon at 11:00 pm when Judi left without fanfare. On the whole , it was a memorable day which I will always treasure.
 

A Special Thank You to Ann C. for sharing her experience with us
 


My Visit with Dame Judi Dench

By Website Visitor / Contributor, Jane H, MI, USA

First of all there were three coincidental things that happened that I want to mention.  When I called the Holiday Inn to make my reservation the man at the desk asked me "Do you want a room with a view?"  I had to chuckle at that since Judi had made a movie by that name.  Then when I picked up my tickets I was in row "H" which reminded me a of little anecdote Judi tells about her father saying "We're right here, Darling, in row H."  Then after everything was all over and I was back in the hotel, I called the front desk to ask when the local paper would be delivered to the hotel and they said "Four in the Morning," another movie Judi made in 1965.  I just thought these things a little funny.

When I arrived on Friday evening, I met with Kathy from Salt Lake City, Utah and Ginny Arnold from Massachusetts.  We had dinner and made our plans for the next day at Blackfriars Playhouse.  It is very small and only holds 300 people but it is the only replica of the original Shakespeare theatre in existence.  It is quite beautiful inside with carved wood.  The seating is wooden benches with a removable backrest and cushions on the seats.  I was in row H directly in front of the stage.

We arrived early as we had arranged to meet some of the people from Chris's website and also some from the ATGB yahoo group.  Ginny's daughter had made buttons for several people that had contacted her in advance.  They had an I, and a heart, and then below a picture of Judi.  They were quite nice and the picture was one of her best.  We were all standing around waiting for them to let us in the lobby when a silver Volkswagen pulled up and people started getting out.  My niece, Carol Lynn said, "That woman looks like Judi Dench."  Of course it was and she walked up and started talking to the group when she noticed the buttons. "How lovely" she said.  "Where did you get these?"  Ginny told her that her daughter had made them and she said, "I love them."  Ralph Cohen then said that she would be available inside for people to talk to so they approached the door.  I was in a wheelchair near the door.  Judi stopped and said hello and said, "You've got one too." Referring to the button.  Then she said, "I'm very, very glad" in that lovely accent of hers and proceeded to go inside the building.

After everyone was seated Mr. Cohen brought her on stage where she sat in one of four chairs.  She was dressed in beige slacks and long linen looking jacket with the traditional scarf over her shoulder.  She had a bottle of water, which she occasionally took a drink from.  She looked beautiful and I was surprised at how tiny she is.  I knew her height was only a little over five feet but her hands and her features were surprisingly small.  I thought her face was bigger because in Mrs. Brown and Shakespeare In Love, her face looked larger.  Mr. Cohen came to the podium and as a way of introduction; he told a story of how he and his family met Judi.  Another gentleman spoke and revealed a picture of Michael with a dedication plaque attached to a beautiful hand carved frame.  He said this would hang in the Playhouse.  When Judi came up she was emotional and talked about how sad she was that she was here and Michael wasn't.  She wiped a tear from her eye and continued talking about the Cohen's and how quickly they all became friends with her family.  She quoted a line from the part of Cecily (which she played long ago) in the play The Importance of Being Earnest about being sad having to part from people she had just met.  Then the troupe serenaded Judi with lines from Shakespeare and a fun song about beer and drinking.  Judi laughed a lot at the song.  She and Mr. Cohen were sitting on little stools on the side of the stage during this.  After this there was an intermission while they set up for the play and Judi was downstairs signing autographs and visiting with fans.  My sister Carol had her sign a book for me and then she asked Mr. Cohen what were the plans for Judi during the day.  He said they would be upstairs during the next break and again downstairs.  She explained that I was in a wheelchair and it was difficult for me to get to these places and he graciously said that Judi would come to me during the next break, which she did.  Unfortunately I was unable to think clearly and didn't ask her all the things I wanted to but she is a very generous, gracious lady and I was blown away by the experience.  I told her I had just seen Four In The Morning and she said, "That's going back a bit".  She was there about 7 or 8 minutes and was also signing other pictures and programs that people were giving me to pass on to her.  The play was very good and I thought the actors did a great job.  A man played Lady Bracknell.  Oh yes, when Judi was speaking she apologized for the movie so I guess she didn't like it much either.  After the play a lady reporter from the local paper, the News Leader, came up and interviewed me for the article in the paper ( See the end of the article below ).  All in all, it was a tremendous experience for me because I know I will probably never get this opportunity again.  She doesn't come to the states that often and I will never get to London.  There was a cocktail party and a dinner afterwards, which I did not attend, so someone else will have to report on that portion of the event.

 Jane Holland

 

A Special Thank You to Jane H, MI, USA for sharing her experience with us

 


Famed actress Judi Dench visits Blackfriars Playhouse

British actors supported theater

By Cindy Corell/staff 

Vincent Lerz

The NewsLeader.com Website

Dame Judi Dench speaks Saturday at a press conference while visiting the Blackfriars Playhouse. Behind the actress is a photograph of her late husband, Michael Willams.

STAUNTON -- A 7-year-old name Kate Cohen started it all.

In 1977, she accompanied her parents, Ralph and Judy Cohen, and siblings to a theater exhibit that British stage actress Judi Dench was co-hosting. The night before the family had seen Dench's performance in "Much Ado About Nothing." The actress who would one day win an Academy Award and be honored as a dame played the role of Beatrice.

While the elder Cohens mumbled their appreciation of the actress' work, young Kate introduced herself and remarked that Dench was the "best Beatrice I've ever seen."

Dench asked the young girl how many Beatrices she had in fact seen.

"I've only seen three, but you're the best," Kate replied.

Nearly 30 years later, Dench is more than repaying the compliment.

Dench and her husband, renowned actor Michael Willams, and the Cohens became close friends after that first meeting, and the Cohens moved back to the U.S. where they both took jobs at James Madison University. When the English professor and theater buff co-founded Shenandoah Shakespeare, the couples had even more in common, and when Shenandoah Shakespeare evolved into the construction of the Blackfriars Playhouse, Dench and Williams signed on to help. Williams served on the advisory board and Dench became the honorary co-chair of the fund-raising effort.

Williams passed away several months before the theater opened.

On Saturday, he and Dench were honored at a tribute at the theater. Also attending was former Secretary of State Madeline Albright, a fan of Dench's work.

"I shall never forget walking through this door about a half an hour ago," Dench said. "I think how lucky that Kate was so gracious to me about Beatrice. If she hadn't been, I wouldn't be here today."

When a photo of her late husband was unveiled, framed in wood custom-made by Staunton resident Paul Borzelleca, she put a hand to her mouth and seconds later, beamed.

Dench apologized for the emotion she showed on the stage.

"It's sad that I'm here and Michael isn't here," she later told the crowd. Dench and Williams played the main roles in a BBC comedy "A Fine Romance," and worked together on other projects. But their first loves were always the stage. She called the Blackfriars exquisite and complimented those who had been a part of making it happen.

"We did have this once in England, but we don't so much anymore," she said of the theater. "You are lucky."

Dench fulfilled her duties in the fund-raising department during the day's events. Patrons paid $500 to attend the tribute, a matinee of "The Importance of Being Earnest," a reception and dinner at a downtown restaurant. The house was nearly filled for the occasion.

At a press conference following, Dench said those who have given to the Blackfriars project should be proud.

"Anyone would have their breath taken away," she said. "It's very seldom that you get workmanship like this. It's a very manageable space. You want to speak in it. You want to act in it."

Dench won an Academy Award for her portrayal of Queen Elizabeth in "Shakespare in Love." She's played a variety of roles, from Jean in the BBC program "As Time Goes By" to "M" in the James Bond flick, "Die Another Day." She will next be seen in "The Chronicles of Riddick" also starring Vin Diesel.

Jane Holland from Detroit has -- and will continue to -- see them all if she can. She's one of several dozen Dench fans who drove to Staunton for the programs on Saturday.

"I just think she's beautiful," Holland said.

 


Silver Screen Royalty Visits Queen City

WHSV.com News
by:  Damon Dillman

She won an Oscar for her portrayal of Queen Elizabeth in "Shakespeare in Love." And this weekend, she's visiting the Queen City.

A standing ovation greeted Dame Judi Dench as she took the stage at the Blackfriars Playhouse in Staunton Saturday afternoon.

She was in town for "A Day with Judi Dench," which included a tribute to her late husband, actor Michael Williams.

Dench and Williams joined the advisory board for Shenandoah Shakespeare in 1990, but this is her first visit to the Valley.

"Walking into the theatre, I find that, I found that completely overwhelming," Dench said. "We don't get the chance to build theatres like this in England. We just don't do it. And so walking into it, just now, it took my breath away."

Former U.S. Secretary of State Madelaine Albright was among those in the audience for the event, which also included a matinee performance of Oscar Wilde's "The Importance of Being Earnest."

"This extra time that she's put into coming here means so much to us, and I think this is one of the great moments in the Blackfriars and in Shenandoah Shakespeare's history, and I'm just delighted she's here," said Shenandoah Shakespeare executive director Ralph Cohen, a longtime friend of Dench's.

Dench will also be participating in Sunday's graduation ceremonies at Mary Baldwin College.

She'll help grant the scholl's first Master of Fine Arts degrees. And she'll be receiving her own honorary degree - her first from an American school of higher learning.

 

 

   Thanks to Kathe C, USA, for first bringing this event to my attention

 

 

 


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